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Martin Luther King, Jr.

  • Born January 15, 1929
  • Graduated high school at age 15
  • Received a BA from Morehouse College in Atlanta in 1948
  • Received a BD in Theology from Crozer Theological Seminary in 1951
  • Received a PhD from Boston University in 1955
  • Married Coretta Scott and had 2 sons and 2 daughters
  • Awarded with the Nobel Peace Prize in 1964 at age 35 – youngest man to ever receive the award
  • Assassinated April 4, 1968 in Memphis, TN

My favorite Martin Luther King Quotes:

“Discrimination is a hellhound that gnaws at Negroes in every waking moment of their lives to remind them that the lie of their inferiority is accepted as truth in the society dominating them.”

“The function of education is to teach one to think intensively and to think critically… Intelligence plus character – that is the goal of true education.”

“Man was born into barbarism when killing his fellow man was a normal condition of existence. He became endowed with a conscience. And he has now reached the day when violence toward another human being must become as abhorrent as eating another’s flesh.”

“We will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.”

It may be true that the law cannot make a man love me, but it can keep him from lynching me, and I think that’s pretty important.

Like an unchecked cancer, hate corrodes the personality and eats away its vital unity. Hate destroys a man’s sense of values and his objectivity. It causes him to describe the beautiful as ugly and the ugly as beautiful, and to confuse the true with the false and the false with the true.

“I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character.”

“If a man hasn’t discovered something that he will die for, he isn’t fit to live.”



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Geography is not only about knowing where places are on a map. It’s also about people and their cultures, weather, distance, nature and more. Here are four fascinating primitive cultures for you to explore:

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Figure out how many world leaders you know from the countries listed below. (See answers below.)

How many do your children know as well?

Countries

  1. Afghanistan
  2. Argentina
  3. Australia
  4. Brazil
  5. Canada
  6. China
  7. Costa Rica
  8. Cuba
  9. Egypt
  10. France
  11. Great Britain
  12. Greece
  13. India
  14. Indonesia
  15. Iran
  16. Iraq
  17. Ireland
  18. Israel
  19. Italy
  20. Japan
  21. Monaco
  22. North Korea
  23. Mexico
  24. Russia
  25. South Africa
  26. South Korea
  27. Spain
  28. Sweden

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Answers*

  1. Afghanistan: Hamid Karzai (President)
  2. Argentina: Cristina Fernandez de Kirchner (President)
  3. Australia: Quentin Bryce (Governor General)   -  Kevin Michael Rudd (Prime Minister)
  4. Brazil: Luiz Inacio “Lula” da Silva (President)
  5. Canada: Michaelle Jean (Governor General)   -  Stephen Harper (Prime Minister)
  6. China: Hu Jintao (President)
  7. Costa Rica: Oscar Arias Sanchez (President)
  8. Cuba: General Raul Castro Ruz (President of the Council of State)
  9. Egypt: Mohamed Hasni Mubarak (President)
  10. France: Nicolas Sarcozy (President)   Francois Fillon (Prime Minister)
  11. Great Britain: Elizabeth II (Queen)  James Gordon Brown (Prime Minister)
  12. Greece: Karolos Papoulias (President)  -  Konstandinos Karamanlis (Prime Minister)
  13. India: Pratibha Patil (President)
  14. Indonesia: Susilo Bambang Yudhoyono (President)
  15. Iran: Ayatollah Ali Hoseini-Khamanei (Supreme Leader)  -  Mahmud Ahmadi-Nejad (President)
  16. Iraq: Jalal Talabani (President)
  17. Ireland: Mary McAleese (President)
  18. Israel: Shimon Peres (President)   -  Binyamin “Bibi” Netanyahu (Prime Minister)
  19. Italy: Giorgio Napolitano (President)  -  Silvio Berlusconi (Prime Minister)
  20. Japan: Akihito (Emperor)  -  Yukio Hatoyama (Prime Minister)
  21. Monaco: Prince Albert II (Chief of State)  – Jean-Paul Proust (Minister of State & President of Governing Council)
  22. North Korea: Kim Jong Il (General Secretary, Supreme Commander of Army and Chairman of National Defense Commission)
  23. Mexico: Felip de Jesus Calderon Hinojosa (President)
  24. Russia: Dmitriy Anatolyevich Medvedev (President) -  Vladimir Vladimirovich Putin (Premier)
  25. South Africa: Jacob Zuma (President)
  26. South Korea: Lee Myung-bak (President)  – Han Seung-soo (Prime Minister)
  27. Spain: King Juan Carlos de Borbon y Borbon  (Chief of State) – Jose Luis Rodriguez Zapatero (President)
  28. Sweden: Carl XVI Gustaf (King) -  Frederik Reinfeldt (Prime Minister)

How many did you know? How many will you remember?

*Source:  https://www.cia.gov

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Young writer extraordinaire, Dallas Woodburn, shares her two books with us

Writer and entrepreneur, Dallas Woodburn, had her first book published at age ten, a collection of short stories called: There’s a Huge Pimple On My Nose. While attending college at The University of Southern California (USC), she had many articles published in major magazines and newspapers as well as another collection of short stories: 3 am: A Collection of Short Stories. She is living proof that you are never too young to start a writing career! Dallas also started www.WriteOnBooks.org, a fantastic website that publishes short stories, poems and essays written by young writers for young readers to enjoy. She holds a holiday book drive every year and even offers a summer writing camp for kids in Southern California. If this weren’t all enough, she also has a blog, where she shares all sorts of information about writing.

How old were you when you first became interested in writing?

It’s funny, but it’s difficult for me to remember a time before I loved to write! I learned to read when I was four, and I gobbled up books. Like many kids, I made up stories; I was compelled to write my stories down. I think this was largely due to the fact that my dad is a writer. Every night, my parents read me bedtime stories, and every morning I came downstairs to see my dad writing. As a result, I was very aware that someone had written the books I so loved to read. And I decided that I wanted to be someone who writes books for other people to enjoy.

What were your major influences at that time? Who inspired you to write?

My dad is my biggest fan and is the first person who reads my work – his feedback and encouragement are invaluable. I remember when I was little, he would let me type stories on his computer once he had filed his column for the day – how special that was! I am incredibly blessed that my parents and teachers were so encouraging of my love of writing from a very young age. Also, when I was in the first and second grade I was lucky to have an amazing teacher, Diane Sather, who encouraged my love for writing. I remember she had me read one of my stories to the class. I got such a burst of joy from sharing what I had written with others. It never crossed my mind to just write for myself. My high school English teacher, Tania Sussman, became an amazing mentor for me and I now think of her as one of my biggest inspirations and dearest friends.

How did you go about getting your collection of short stories published when you were only ten years old?

There’s a Huge Pimple on My Nose is proof that with a lot of hard work, a lot of perseverance – and, yes, a lot of support, too – a small idea can snowball into something bigger than you ever dreamed. My snowball began as a snowflake when I applied for and received a $50 grant from my elementary school to write, publish and sell a collection of my short stories and poems — but I think here’s what set my proposal apart: I would use the profits to repay my grant, so the school could offer an extra one the following year. My first printing, done at a Kinkos copy shop, was modest: twenty-five staple-bound forty-page books. Actually, they were more like thick pamphlets, but no matter – to me, they were books, my books, the most beautiful books I had ever laid eyes upon. J.K. Rowling wasn’t more proud of her first Harry Potter hardcover edition.

My fellow students and teachers, bless them, acted as if Pimple was at the top of the New York Times Best-Seller List. The first twenty-five copies promptly sold in a couple of days. Can you imagine what a turbo-boost this was to a fifth-grader’s self-esteem? I was pursuing my dream, but I wasn’t pursuing it alone – my family and friends and teachers were right there with me. So I went back to Kinkos, ordered twenty-five more books – and soon sold all those as well. After three more trips to Kinkos, where the workers now knew me by name, I searched out a publishing business and ordered a few hundred glossy-covered, glue-bound, professional-looking Pimples. My little forty-page dream evolved from a snowball into a blizzard, with newspaper and radio interviews; appearances at literacy events all around California; even a “Dallas Woodburn Day” at the Santa Barbara Book Fair. I still have to pinch myself, but Pimple has sold more than 2,200 copies and I repaid two school grants.

Looking back, I was fortunate to dive into this career at such an early age because I wasn’t afraid or self-conscious about my writing. I think as we get older, we tend to lose that child-like pride and confidence in ourselves and our work. I published my first book when I was in fifth grade. I wasn’t afraid of rejection, so I sent my book out to anyone and everyone I thought might read it. Sure, I didn’t hear back from a lot of them. But I did score reviews in The Los Angeles Times, Girls’ Life magazine, Cosmo Girl magazine, and others.

2,200 copies sold is indeed impresssive! You made a really great point here, Dallas – You were not afraid to try! I think that’s what stops most people from success in whatever they do. The fear of rejection and criticism.

Yes, many terrific doors were opened for me because I wasn’t afraid to hear the word “no.”

What kind of articles have you written for magazines and newspapers?

I write articles for magazines, newspapers and websites — everything from Family Circle to The Los Angeles Times to Writer’s Digest. I’m also a monthly columnist for GradtoGreat.com, TweenParent.com, and Listen magazine. I love profiling inspiring young people – like your daughter, Rachel (article to be published soon) – and helping spread the word about the amazing things kids and teens are doing. I think often the media focuses on negative stereotypes about teenagers, which is unfortunate because there are so many young people who are doing phenomenal, selfless things to better the world.

That is so true! I am so glad there are people out there like you to share positive stories with the world. How did you get your first article published?

One of my favorite things about being a writer is that even your most embarrassing moments in life are worth something because they are great writing material! My first article was for Justine magazine, at that time a newly established publication for teens, and it was a true-life account about how I was “sweet sixteen” and had never been kissed. The editors loved my honest voice and the piece resonated with a lot of readers. I have always tried to see my young age as an advantage in my writing, rather than a disadvantage, because it allows me to write about things like teen issues with a great deal of authenticity. As a teen writing for a teen publication, I wrote an article that I would want to read! I would encourage other writers to put themselves in this mindset – what insights and lessons does your particular background and experiences give you? How can you use these traits as an advantage in your writing life?

In addition to a love of writing, you and I have something in common. We both travel around our communities to speak to students at schools about writing and publishing. What is the main message you hope to get across to the students you speak to?

I hope that students come away from my talk inspired and motivated, knowing that they really can accomplish their dreams! I tell students that the lessons I have learned through writing can apply to whatever their own passions may be – sports, music, dance, art. Everyone at some point has to deal with rejection and discouragement. Everyone is going to face setbacks. Everyone is going to reach a crossroads where they might think of giving up. When they reach that point, I want students to realize that they are not alone – and the important thing is persevering through the hard times. Don’t ever let anyone discourage you from pursuing your dreams!!

Do you find this rewarding?

Incredibly rewarding! It is an activity that gives me great joy and fulfillment. Whenever I am feeling discouraged or creatively drained, going to schools and speaking to students inevitably recharges my batteries and gets me excited about writing again. So much energy and enthusiasm! It’s contagious!

I notice on your blog that you write about receiving rejection letters for your writing. Can you explain that?

Rejection is also something that everyone has to deal with. As a writer, I joke that I could wallpaper all four of my bedroom walls with all the rejection letters I have received from editors! The important thing is not to take it personally. For whatever reason, you or your writing just wasn’t a right fit for that publication at this specific time. That doesn’t mean that they won’t love the next piece you send to them! When I get a rejection letter, I first read the comments to see if there is any advice I can glean or ways I can improve for next time. Then, I submit my story or essay or article somewhere else.

It is so important for people out there to know about rejection, because the general public usually only hears about the success part of a person’s career. That makes us all think it is much easier than it really is!

Yes! It took me more than a year to find my literary agent. A year of rejection, rejection, rejection – until finally, I found my perfect match. My agent understands my writing and has faith in my career. I just had to have the patience and perseverance to find her!

Tell us about WriteOnBooks.org. What was your main goal when you started this website?

With my website I wanted to create a place where young writers can go to find resources and inspiration, as well as connect with other young writers. I started the site to coincide with my latest endeavor, which is starting a publishing company, Write On! Books, that publishes anthologies of stories, poems and essays written by young writers for young audiences. The goal is to give young people a much-needed outlet for expression and connection, while also hopefully inspiring a love of reading in youth. As a young writer, sometimes it can be hard to get people to take you seriously and get editors to even read your work. I believe that young people have a voice and opinions and a life perspective that just as important as the voice of adults. Moreover, there are so many books for young people that are written by adults – but who knows what its like to be a kid better than a kid herself? I am eager to read submissions from young writers — they can e-mail me at dallaswoodburn@aol.com or visit my website www.writeonbooks.org for more information.

Part of your website is Write On! For Literacy. What does that entail?

In a recent national assessment conducted by the National Literacy Institute (NLI) of fourth-grade students, 13% reported never reading for fun on their own; an additional 16% only read for fun once a month. I think this is a travesty. Reading has brought me so much excitement, confidence and has opened so many doors for me, including a tremendous college education and a career that I love.

Writing and reading have given me so much fulfillment and self-confidence, and opportunities that I never would have been given otherwise – like traveling to New York to be a guest on The CBS Early Show when I was writing a column for Family Circle magazine. I feel other kids should be exposed to writing and reading as well, to encourage their self-confidence and self-expression. When I published my first book, There’s a Huge Pimple On My Nose, in fifth grade, the teachers in my elementary school asked me to talk to their classes, and then I spoke to other classes throughout the school district. I still enjoy talking to kids about writing. At the beginning of my talk, I ask the kids if any of them are interested in writing, and usually a few shy hands raise. In contrast, at the end of my talk when I ask the same question, a lot more hands raise. The students told me they didn’t know that kids could be writers. They thought they had to wait until they were adults.

I started “Write On! For Literacy” in 2001 to encourage kids to discover joy, confidence, a means of self-expression and connection to others through reading and writing. My website www.writeonbooks.org features writing contests, book reviews, fun writing prompts, and more. I also hold an annual Holiday Book Drive to collect and distribute new books to disadvantaged kids — more than 10,000 books have been donated to date.

If one of our readers wants to sponsor a local holiday book drive for your organization, what should he or she do?

That would be wonderful! Write On! would love for you to start a Holiday Book Drive chapter in your area! It can be as large or small of an effort as you have the time and energy for. Many chapter leaders begin book drives by inviting friends and relatives to get involved, and then broaden their efforts to area schools, churches and community groups. I have found in my own efforts that often people in the community want to get involved with literacy endeavors, but aren’t sure how — when they hear about the Holiday Book Drive, they are very excited to help out.

If you are interested in starting a Holiday Book Drive chapter, please e-mail me at dallaswoodburn@aol.com and I will add you to our chapter list. I can also send you flyers to help spread the word and get the ball rolling!

Wow, Dallas. You sure have a lot of energy! What are you most proud of thus far in your writing career?

It is always fantastic to get fan letters and e-mails from readers who have enjoyed my work. Nothing makes my day more than a sweet note from someone who has been touched by my writing!

I think I am most proud, however, of Write On! and my literacy endeavors. When a boy tells me that he believes in his own potential after hearing my talk, or a girl tells me that she wants to be a writer now after visiting my website, it makes me feel like I am making a positive difference, and that is something to truly be proud of.

What are your hopes for the future of your writing career?

I truly hope to make a positive difference in the lives of others through my writing and literacy endeavors. I believe writing can connect people and foster understanding, and that is what I hope to do in my career.

I have started to write another novel, which I’m in the early exciting stages of – writing and waiting to see where the story will lead me. I’m also a staff writer for the websites GradtoGreat.com, TweenParent.com, and Listen magazine, a publication that encourages kids to make smart choices and stay away from drugs and alcohol. I’m having fun working on play scripts and submitting them to festivals. I’m also the coordinator for the Young Writers Program of the Santa Barbara Writers Conference – I really enjoy interacting with other young writers, and I hope to expand the program and continue to be involved with the conference for many years to come.

What advice do you have for children (or adults) who are considering a career as a writer?

Enjoy the process! As John Wooden says, “The journey is better than the inn.” In addition, publishing my books has taught me not to be afraid to take risks, and to take the initiative when you have an idea and make it happen yourself rather than letting fear and doubt make you wait. Because, why wait? Take small steps towards your dreams, and small steps can snowball into amazingly big opportunities!

Thank you so much for taking the time to talk to us, Dallas. Your accomplishments and attitude are an inspiration, not only for young people, but also for the countless adults out there who are afraid to take risks. You are living proof that one is never too young to take action and make a difference. Please stay in touch with Smart Poodle Publishing and let us know about your future publishing endeavors.

To reach Dallas Woodburn, visit her website by clicking here or email her at dallaswoodburn@aol.com.

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I got my hair cut today and was not expecting to find such great characters in the salon. Here’s what I saw:

  1. 95 (at least) Year Old Man with Walker – This is a first. I was sitting in the chair waiting for a shampoo when an ancient, hunched  over man shuffled by with his walker. He was being assisted by a younger man, because the walker was not enough to hold him up. I looked up and nearly died when I saw the old man had neon orange hair dye on his head, eyebrows and moustache. This was not a color that one would ever find in the natural hair rainbow. Oh how I’d love to have been able to interview the old guy.
  2. Bagel Hoarder - The salon puts out a tray of bagel chunks and a tub of cream cheese near the coffee for patrons to enjoy. They are usually dried out and hard to swallow. I observed an elderly woman shoveling them in her mouth, 3 at a time. She was coughing, but still shoveling them in. Then she started talking to someone and bagel crumbs were flying out of her mouth. I was getting nervous, thinking that she would choke to death, but somehow she managed to live through it. When she turned and walked away from the food, I noticed that she was blinking a lot and had cream cheese all over her eyelashes.

Look around you. Observe people. Listen in on conversations. You never know when you’ll find inspiration for a character in your next story.

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Read Interview Part 1 here. Part 2 here. Part 3 here.

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You have written Globejotting: How to Write Extraordinary Travel Journals (and still have time to enjoy your trip!). I cannot wait to read it! Now you teach travel journaling courses in Seattle.  I think it is wonderful that you share your writing insight with others. Is teaching a rewarding experience for you?

I love teaching – and especially travel journaling classes. It’s something I’m passionate about, because I think it helps people get more in touch with the emotional side of their trips and helps them have richer journeys. I’m really dedicated to helping people understand other cultures, and also to helping them harness foreign cultures as a backdrop for their own self-discovery.

I’ve been teaching journaling classes for quite a few years now, which is what led me to write Globejotting. I’m excited about some upcoming journaling tours I am putting together. In January, 2010, I’ll be partnering with African wildlife specialist Bill Given and co-leading a travel journaling safari in Botswana. Bill will lead game drives in the morning and evening, when the temperatures are tolerable, and during the middle of the day, when it’s too hot to be running around in the Kalahari bush, I’ll to teach lessons in travel journaling and essay writing. I’m also looking into a similar workshop in Vietnam in the fall of 2010. If anyone is interested, they will find all the details on my websites at traveljournaling.com and davethefox.com.

Do you often look back and read your own journals from long ago?

I do go back and read my journals on occasion, and it’s fascinating to see how much I have changed. I encourage people to keep travel diaries because there is so much we can capture in writing that we can’t capture with a camera.

At the same time, though, I think that even if you never go back and re-read your travel diaries, they are still worth writing. When we journal in the right way, writing about our experiences brings us more intimately in touch with all the things that are happening around us. Journaling gives us richer travel experiences because it increases our awareness of our surroundings.

The two frustrations most people face are either that their writing seems to fall flat, and not fully capture the spirit of their journeys, or they just can’t find time to write in the middle of an exciting trip. I offer solutions to these challenges, and a lot of different writing techniques, in my book, Globejotting.

Here in the US, students are greatly lacking in geography education. Why do you think this is the case? And what do you think we can do about it?

I’m not sure why that is, but it’s something I wish we would fix. Especially now that the Internet makes it so cheap and easy to communicate with people all over the world, it’s important to understand who we are talking to, and know where they are.

I think what helps is when teachers, parents, etc., teach geography as more than just memorizing maps and locations. On a very basic level, even young kids can appreciate the concept of different cultures, climates, governments, etc. We need to encourage kids to learn about people who are different from themselves. When we do these things creatively, many kids find it fascinating.

When you are not traveling, teaching, speaking or writing, what do you most enjoy doing?

Eating and sleeping are two of my favorite things. I like to cook. I love to barbecue when the weather is nice. And I love music of many kinds

If I’ve been spending a lot of time around people, at the end of a busy tour season, for example, I tend to hang out alone for a couple of days and enjoy some quiet time by myself, but ultimately, I get a lot of energy from meeting new people and finding out what sorts of experiences they are having in this thing we call “life.”

Thank you Dave!

Dave Fox is a busy guy. He is one of the judges for our new children’s I Love Costa Rica’s Rain Forest! Travel Writing and Art Contest. In addition to traveling, teaching classes about journaling, speaking and writing books and articles, Dave spends several months in Europe each year as a tour guide for Rick Steves’ Europe Through the Back Door. He even posts his crazy travel schedule on his website. When he’s not on an airplane or in a hotel, Dave enjoys the comforts of his own home in Seattle. Please visit www.davethefox.com to get the whole story.

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I was in Starbucks today working for an hour and observing. What great people watching you can do in there! Here’s what I noticed:

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  1. There were 5 men in there between the ages of 50-60. All 5 had very elongated oval heads and the same grey hair, with similar balding patterns. All sat alone. All faced in the same direction.
  2. A woman with a very sweaty back, a bag of takeout food and a stack of newsletters from her church came in and talked to herself out loud. She was trying to decide where to sit, but was thinking out loud and shaking her head about the logistics of sitting and eating on the different chairs. I offered to help her make a decision. We finally worked it out. She went up to order a drink and was unable to make a decision about that either. The barista was geting frustrated. She came back to her seat about 20 minutes later and fussed with her takeout bag, her new drink and her papers. It was fascinating to watch. When she got up to leave, her back was twice as sweaty as when she arrived , even though the A/C was quite chilly in there. Not sure what that was all about.
  3. An adorable elderly lady came in and took the sweaty lady’s seat. She looked at my laptop and tried to think of the word “internet” but was unable to do so. She was trying to ask me how it works in a house and how one can sign up for it and then learn how to use it. Her 3 granddaughters approached her. I told her that they would teach her. But she said that they don’t want her to learn because then they would have to share their computers with her. When it was time for her to leave, she was unable to get up on her own. I got up to help, but her granddaughters yanked her arms and got her up. It was obvious that this was something they were used to doing. Poor old thing got in her car and drove the 2 kids. We could not believe she could drive, given the shape she was in. That’s South Florida for ya!
  4. A man sat down on the couch next to my daughter (she was doing her homework) and he started to work on his computer. He dialed someone on his cell. Literally every 5 minutes or less, he told the person he was talking to that he had a call on the other line. Not only did he click back and forth repeatedly, but he did not stop talking for a second. Whoever was on the other line(s) could not possibly have said one word to him. It was as if he had taken a massive verbal diarrhea pill.

My daughter and I couldn’t take it any longer, so we left.

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Thanks, Mom

It’s hard to believe that today marks 1 year since my Mom passed away. I vow not to be sad; rather I will celebrate the good things she taught me.

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Mom hard at work in the 1970s

I am reminded that while one family is grieving, another is celebrating. The day my Mom passed away, my neighbor’s daughter was getting married. This is a fitting irony to recall, because all people will experience the extremes of joy and pain more than once in their lifetimes. My Mom was one of the best “celebraters” ever. She said, “Go to the parties and not wait for the funerals.”

Other great philosophies she left behind:

  • Be responsible – If you say you are going to do something, do it! NO excuses.
  • Work hard -  Mom never missed a day of work. She put all her energy into her work while there, and she got  lot of fulfillment out of it.
  • Take care of what you own – Mom’s house, all that was in it, her car and everything else she owned were immaculate. When we sold her house, the new buyers could not believe the kitchen was 31 years old. Not a mark, scratch or speck of dirt to be found.
  • Never buy more that you can afford – Mom was not a big shopper. She was a widow at age 36 with 3 kids and knew how to live a fruitful life without going into debt.
  • Document special events - Mom took photo albums to the extreme, but she got a great deal of pleasure out of looking back at special times.

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Mom with her babushka and her shift dress in the 1960s

  • Stay organized – Mom’s files, bills and financial affairs were in impeccable order. Unless you have ever had to close out a loved ones accounts, like my sister and I have, you cannot imagine how important this is!
  • Be a friend – Mom was loyal to her friends and was always there to lend a hand.
  • Keep your freezer full - You never know when a visitor will show up at the door.
  • Welcome all visitors – There’s always room for a visitor to spend the night or share a home cooked meal with you.
  • See the world – If there’s an opportunity for a trip, by all means take it.

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Mom crocheting in the 1960s

Thanks Mom. I’m off to work hard, just like you taught me . . .

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Smart Poodle Publishing subscribes to Role Mommy’s informative newsletter, which links back to the website – one of my absolute favorites. This is a terrific place for busy moms everywhere to stay informed about all things that might interest them. The mission of Role Mommy is “Helping your children realize their hopes and dreams doesn’t mean you have to give up on your own.” As a working Mom/business owner myself, I can so relate to that. Beth Feldman, President of Role Mommy (and so much more!) was kind enough to answer some questions for us today.

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I love the mission of Role Mommy. What inspired you to come up with that?

When I became a new mom I was always fascinated by stories of women who were pursuing their passion while raising a family.  I wanted to know what made them tick, what inspired them to still do what they love despite the stress, time constraints and mommy guilt.  And after meeting with and interviewing countless women who are still going after their dreams while juggling motherhood, I felt that they were role models or “Role Mommies” who should be celebrated.

What do you hope your readers can get from your website?

What I hope is that readers will be entertained and inspired when they visit Role Mommy.  From celebrity interviews, humorous essays, recommendations and profiles of amazing moms, when you visit our site, it’s like that chocolate box scene from “Forrest Gump” – you never know what you’re gonna get.


What is Role Mommy University?

We are in the process of developing a program for mothers who are entrepreneurs, authors and parenting experts where we will provide them with the tools they will need to garner exposure for their brand, book or product.  We are currently scheduling these events in NYC that will then be made available online.

How do you come up with ideas for your blog?

I come up with ideas in a variety of ways.  If I’m out and about with my family I usually find that divine inspiration strikes and I get some great ideas for humorous posts.  I’m also invited to lots of media events and while I can’t make them all, I definitely attend the ones where I can get an interview with one of my favorite stars (you can check out our interview with Kelly Ripa for one of my latest big gets).  I’m also contacted regularly by enterprising moms and PR agencies and again, I pursue stories that interest me.  I’m an entertainment junkie, love to read chick lit and inspiring books and also love to showcase the incredible moms who have joined our community.

In a sea of countless Mommy Blogs and websites, what makes Role Mommy so unique?

Role Mommy is a place for every mom.  If you’re doing something in your life that you’re passionate about, then we want to hear about it. We hope that when you visit our site, we can make you laugh or you are inspired by the stories of our Moms of Reinvention.


What do you like best about your work at Role Mommy?

Being able to connect with incredible women from all over the country who are doing amazing things in their lives and writing funny stories about my hectic life as a working mom with a husband, two kids, two cats, a hermit crab and a lizard that will be joining our brood this summer.  I guess what I’m saying is my home life is like a zoo and I wouldn’t have it any other way.

In addition to publishing your website, you are President of BeyondPR, an entertainment public relations agency in NY. Can you tell us about that?

Before I left corporate America, I was a vice president for the CBS Communications Group where I spearheaded PR efforts for four divisions of the company including entertainment, marketing, consumer products and digital media.  When I left CBS, I launched a public relations consulting firm and over the last two years have worked on a host of entertainment projects for TNT, TBS, CBS, Yahoo and Lifetime Television.  I’m also frequently hired by entertainment and toy companies to tap into the mom blogger market.  So in essence, my passion for motherhood has now dovetailed with my public relations agency.

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Beth with her Children and Husband – One Happy Family!


How on earth do you find time to manage the website and the agency and be a wife and Mom to two children and two cats?

Let me stop you right there – today I purchased a tank for a new lizard we’ll be taking into our home when my son comes home from school tomorrow.  Plus, we have two hermit crabs too.  I pretty much work a lot.  I try to stay away from my laptop when my kids are awake but once they go to sleep, I’m back online, writing, pitching, social networking and pretty much doing what I love.  I now have to run and break up a scuffle between my elderly cat and psychotic kitten.

I’m laughing, because your life actually sounds like a sitcom! Beth, you are quite possibly the busiest mom in America! When (or if) you have an hour to yourself, how would you best like to spend it?

I love getting pedicures and judging from my toes, I’m in desperate need of one right about now.  I also enjoy slipping on my headphones, strapping on my rollerblades and singing some of my favorite show tunes and pop songs as I zip around my neighborhood.


I understand you have a funny story about the early birth of your son, Dylan, and how that did not stop you from working. At that time you were employed by CBS, right?

My son was born three weeks early, as I was in the midst of planning the finale for “The Amazing Race,” scheduling a major photo shoot with the cast of “The King of Queens” and arranging for the entire cast of CSI to ring the closing bell at the New York Stock Exchange.  I never realized that the stress from all three shows would cause me to go into pre-mature labor, but it did.  On the day I went into labor, I was busy emailing my assistant (this was before Blackberries) while clutching the wall between contractions.  Within a few hours, my son literally flew out of me (now I know why women give birth in rice patties and go back to work right afterwards).  I then spent the next few days in bed watching all my stars appear on the talk shows I had booked for them before Dylan decided to make his entrance into the world.

Now that’s dedication! Eventually you talked your boss into telecommuting. You must have been a bit nervous about asking. How did you present the idea?

When I was set to go back to work after my daughter was born, I asked my boss if he would give me the chance to telecommute twice a week.  He agreed to give me a trial run for six weeks and it worked out really well.  So much so, that my actions paved the way for other women in the department to work from home too.

Your PR work sounds fascinating. Of all the campaigns you’ve worked on, what’s your favorite?

Hands down, my favorite campaign was the finale of “Everybody Loves Raymond.”  From creating a collector’s item press kit that resembled a family photo album, to arranging a marathon day of press appearances for the cast where they appeared on nearly every national talk and entertainment show on television, to the moment when they rang the closing bell at the New York Stock Exchange.  I’ll never forget the moment when Doris Roberts reached reached for my hands and said to me, “Honey, you should be so proud of yourself.  Look what you’ve accomplished today – don’t you ever forget it.”  We then ended the night at the Ritz Carlton in Battery Park City where the cast, writers, producers, close family and friends got the chance to celebrate the final episode with a private screening party that I helped spearhead too.  It was truly one of the most amazing moments of my career and I will never forget it.

You have co-authored a book with Yvette Manessis Corporon called “Peeing in Peace: Tales & Tips for Type A Moms.” What a hilarious title. Can you tell us about the book?

After the finale of “Everybody Loves Raymond,” Yvette, who was a producer at “Extra” and I got together for lunch and realized we both wanted to write a book about what it was like balancing work, family and everything in between.  We wanted to present the lighter side of working motherhood and we spent the summer in my basement writing our book proposal.  While we initially weren’t able to get the book published traditionally, we decided to self publish through NK Publications, who actually managed to sell the book into Borders.  Within weeks, we snagged a new agent and she sold the book to Sourcebooks and the rest is history.  The book is now available online through Amazon, Borders and in stores like Barnes and Noble and Destination Maternity.  And, it’s even available in Portugal too!

I’ve got to read that! Where can our readers buy it?

The best way to find the book is on Amazon – we always love driving our numbers up with tons of Amazon sales!  And I’m also proud to announce that my next book, “See Mom Run:  Side-splitting Essays from the World’s Most Harried Blogging Moms” will be published this fall by Plain White Press.

What advice do you have for the woman who wants it all?

Any mom can have it all – She just can’t have it all at once.  Always do the things you love – even if it’s just for one hour per week.  Never lose yourself in the process of becoming a mom – you are an incredible individual who is a role model to your children.  Do what you love and the rest will fall into place.

So well put, Beth! I am sure our readers are inspired – not only by your accomplishments – but also by your philosophy on life. It is obvious that school of thought has a great deal to do with your success. Your energy is relentless and your passion for what you do is awe-inspiring. Thank you for enlightening us and supporting hard-working moms all over the world. Please stay in touch as we’d all love to hear what’s in store for you, your future Role Mommy endeavors and naturally, your expanding “zoo” at home.

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I am a firm believer that American children need to be exposed to career information from any eary age. There are so many choices out there that it is mind boggling! Today I thought it would be fun for parents and kids to learn what different “ologists” do – you know, scientists with “ologist” at the end of their titles. These are worth researching further with your kids. Here are the more unique ones:

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  • apiologist – one who studies bees
  • bacteriologist – one who studies bacteria
  • cartologist - one who makes maps
  • cetologist – one who studies whales
  • entomologist - one who studies insects
  • eschatologist - one who studies death and judgement, as it pertains to theology
  • ethologist – one who studies animal behavior
  • etiology - one who studies causes or origins of disease
  • graphologist - one who studies handwriting
  • herpetologist - one who studies  reptiles
  • hippologist - one who studies  horses
  • ichthyologist - one who studies fish (a branch of zoology)
  • morphologist - one who studies the form and structure of organisms (a branch of biology)
  • mycologist - one who studies fungi (a branch of biology)
  • myrmecologist - one who studies ants
  • nephologist - one who studies clouds and cloud formation (a branch of metoerology)
  • ornithologist – one who studies birds
  • ophiologist - one who studies snakes
  • otologist - one who studies the anatomy of the ear (a branch of biomedicine)
  • paleoanthropologist - one who studies ancient humans as found in fossils
  • paleozoologist - one who studies animals fossils and ancient animal life
  • petrologist - one wo studies rocks to learn about past climates and geography
  • phenologist - one who studies biological phenomena as it relates to climatic conditions
  • philologist - one who studies historical literature or the classics
  • phonologist – one who studies sounds and patterns in a language
  • phytosociologist - one who studies the relationships of plants and their characteristics and classifications
  • pomologist - one who studies and grows fruit
  • pyrologist - one who studies the properties of heat and fire
  • seismologist- one who studies earthquakes and the earth’s properties
  • somatologist – one who studies the anatomy of the human body
  • speleologist - one who studies and explores caves
  • vulcanologist - one who studies volcanoes

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